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		<title>Comment on Study of Adoption and Fostercare by Lesbians and Gay Men by posnie</title>
		<link>http://reames.wordpress.com/2007/04/09/study-of-adoption-and-fostercare-by-lesbians-and-gay-men/#comment-196</link>
		<dc:creator>posnie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 06:31:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Laiconna and wormcreek are not particularly smart, nor are they motivated to consider practical reality or human decency while forming or parenting these un-informed and irresponsibly shallow opinions. 

Laiconna words are shallow. 
wormcreek&#039;s words are stupid and ugly. 
Let me explain. 
1. Being raised by straight parents doesn&#039;t make gay kids grow up straight, nor does being raised by gay parents make straight kids gay. Most people are straight, thus most kids raised by any parents are straight, whether the birth parents cuddle and kiss and co-parent lovingly and responsibly, or whether they forgot to ask each other&#039;s names during the one-night stand that resulted in the children. 
2. Kids who grow up in gay-parented households (or seeing neighbors and relatives with gay-parented households) see them for what they are - whether they happen to look like good families to grow up in or not. Same with kids who grow up in or in the vicinity of straight-parented households. Being exposed to a happy family raised by gay parents (like most I&#039;ve known) only educates people that if people are gay, you have that option. Telling people that if they&#039;re gay they&#039;ll be miserable is propaganda and nothing better than that. 
3. wormcreek, you stupid asshole, you didn&#039;t think for a second when you read the article above. Raising foster kids, or adopting foster kids, means you&#039;re in for a lot of extra work to heal children from horrible (straight-led) homes where they learned that being alive means being hurt and abused and neglected. 
Gay people who want pets get pets. Only those willing to commit to a long, hard, but loving and giving road ever commit to going through the process of adopting and fostering kids whose straight parents didn&#039;t have the right stuff to even be allowed to keep their kids. Straight people, whether they want pets, children, or neither, quite often end up with children. That is not the case with gay people. 

A whole string of straight birth- and foster-parents damaged my children before my husband and I adopted them. Their birth mom, who was savagely abused by our kids&#039; birth father is grateful that they are being raised by us. Their learning specialists, psychologists, camp counselors, teachers, principals, have all told us how lucky our children are to have us as parents, to give them the extra devotion needed to heal them. 

It takes a lot of extra care, a lot of extra professional assistance, a lot of extra faith and paitience to do what we&#039;re doing. 

To say that this is selfish is willful ignorance, and to be perfectly frank, God sees exactly how much righteos love is guiding your dark little heart.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Laiconna and wormcreek are not particularly smart, nor are they motivated to consider practical reality or human decency while forming or parenting these un-informed and irresponsibly shallow opinions. </p>
<p>Laiconna words are shallow.<br />
wormcreek&#8217;s words are stupid and ugly.<br />
Let me explain.<br />
1. Being raised by straight parents doesn&#8217;t make gay kids grow up straight, nor does being raised by gay parents make straight kids gay. Most people are straight, thus most kids raised by any parents are straight, whether the birth parents cuddle and kiss and co-parent lovingly and responsibly, or whether they forgot to ask each other&#8217;s names during the one-night stand that resulted in the children.<br />
2. Kids who grow up in gay-parented households (or seeing neighbors and relatives with gay-parented households) see them for what they are &#8211; whether they happen to look like good families to grow up in or not. Same with kids who grow up in or in the vicinity of straight-parented households. Being exposed to a happy family raised by gay parents (like most I&#8217;ve known) only educates people that if people are gay, you have that option. Telling people that if they&#8217;re gay they&#8217;ll be miserable is propaganda and nothing better than that.<br />
3. wormcreek, you stupid asshole, you didn&#8217;t think for a second when you read the article above. Raising foster kids, or adopting foster kids, means you&#8217;re in for a lot of extra work to heal children from horrible (straight-led) homes where they learned that being alive means being hurt and abused and neglected.<br />
Gay people who want pets get pets. Only those willing to commit to a long, hard, but loving and giving road ever commit to going through the process of adopting and fostering kids whose straight parents didn&#8217;t have the right stuff to even be allowed to keep their kids. Straight people, whether they want pets, children, or neither, quite often end up with children. That is not the case with gay people. </p>
<p>A whole string of straight birth- and foster-parents damaged my children before my husband and I adopted them. Their birth mom, who was savagely abused by our kids&#8217; birth father is grateful that they are being raised by us. Their learning specialists, psychologists, camp counselors, teachers, principals, have all told us how lucky our children are to have us as parents, to give them the extra devotion needed to heal them. </p>
<p>It takes a lot of extra care, a lot of extra professional assistance, a lot of extra faith and paitience to do what we&#8217;re doing. </p>
<p>To say that this is selfish is willful ignorance, and to be perfectly frank, God sees exactly how much righteos love is guiding your dark little heart.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Study of Adoption and Fostercare by Lesbians and Gay Men by wormcreek</title>
		<link>http://reames.wordpress.com/2007/04/09/study-of-adoption-and-fostercare-by-lesbians-and-gay-men/#comment-195</link>
		<dc:creator>wormcreek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2009 13:51:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am totally against Gay and Lesbians raising children.  It is fostering a lifestyle that is unnatural and damaging to children.  If adult men and women want to live together that&#039;s fine but bringing children into that environment is selfish.  GLB&#039;s are only thinking of themselves and their wants, not the children.  Go get a pet, not a child.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am totally against Gay and Lesbians raising children.  It is fostering a lifestyle that is unnatural and damaging to children.  If adult men and women want to live together that&#8217;s fine but bringing children into that environment is selfish.  GLB&#8217;s are only thinking of themselves and their wants, not the children.  Go get a pet, not a child.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Study of Adoption and Fostercare by Lesbians and Gay Men by laiconna</title>
		<link>http://reames.wordpress.com/2007/04/09/study-of-adoption-and-fostercare-by-lesbians-and-gay-men/#comment-194</link>
		<dc:creator>laiconna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2009 06:04:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I certainly don&#039;t have a problem with GLB raising their own offspring. But I wonder if the children adopted by GLB would take on the homosexual tendencies from observation. I know that little boys and little girls from notmally functioning heterosexual familes are usually drawn to the opposite sex. That&#039;s a natural inclination if they see their heterosexual parents cuddling and kissing.

I wonder what affect cussling and kissing same sex individuals have on the children they adopt. Children in many instances are products of their enviornment. I believe that the homosexual environment is an invitation to the children to also see that lifestyle as something to look up to.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I certainly don&#8217;t have a problem with GLB raising their own offspring. But I wonder if the children adopted by GLB would take on the homosexual tendencies from observation. I know that little boys and little girls from notmally functioning heterosexual familes are usually drawn to the opposite sex. That&#8217;s a natural inclination if they see their heterosexual parents cuddling and kissing.</p>
<p>I wonder what affect cussling and kissing same sex individuals have on the children they adopt. Children in many instances are products of their enviornment. I believe that the homosexual environment is an invitation to the children to also see that lifestyle as something to look up to.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Stories of anti-lgbt incidents by newhoosier</title>
		<link>http://reames.wordpress.com/2007/04/05/stories-of-anti-lgbt-incidents/#comment-38</link>
		<dc:creator>newhoosier</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 19:20:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The most anti-LGBT encounter I&#039;ve ever had is governments trying to ban basic civil rights for LGBT people.

My state, Indiana, is currently trying to do this.  And to me (I am not LGBT), this is the worse attrocity because it&#039;s almost like the government declaring LGBT as wrong--which opens the door to many problems, with hate-crimes just being one.

I just wrote about it on my blog, in fact.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The most anti-LGBT encounter I&#8217;ve ever had is governments trying to ban basic civil rights for LGBT people.</p>
<p>My state, Indiana, is currently trying to do this.  And to me (I am not LGBT), this is the worse attrocity because it&#8217;s almost like the government declaring LGBT as wrong&#8211;which opens the door to many problems, with hate-crimes just being one.</p>
<p>I just wrote about it on my blog, in fact.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How low can we go? by jeremiasx</title>
		<link>http://reames.wordpress.com/2007/03/08/how-low-can-we-go/#comment-29</link>
		<dc:creator>jeremiasx</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2007 05:16:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the referral I&#039;ll have to check some of their stuff out...

Feel free to drop by my blog sometime as well...

http://jeremiasx.wordpress.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the referral I&#8217;ll have to check some of their stuff out&#8230;</p>
<p>Feel free to drop by my blog sometime as well&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://jeremiasx.wordpress.com" rel="nofollow">http://jeremiasx.wordpress.com</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on First Marine injured in the Iraq war is gay by reames</title>
		<link>http://reames.wordpress.com/2007/02/28/first-marine-injured-in-the-iraq-war-is-gay/#comment-26</link>
		<dc:creator>reames</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Mar 2007 18:12:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Copied (with permission) from a listserve upon which this article was posted.  

&quot;Thanks for posting this John.  As other gay vet&#039;s like myself will tell
you, it&#039;s a never ending battle to keep one&#039;s sexual orientation a
secret while in the military.  If you are a woman, it&#039;s tougher in my
opinion and through my experience.  You are constantly getting hit on
and if you refuse/reject those advances you are automatically considered
and called a lesbian.  Thus if you are wise, you have at least one or
several male friends who pass for &quot;straight&quot; and be seen out in public
with them.&quot;

* L.S., Decatur, IL</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Copied (with permission) from a listserve upon which this article was posted.  </p>
<p>&#8220;Thanks for posting this John.  As other gay vet&#8217;s like myself will tell<br />
you, it&#8217;s a never ending battle to keep one&#8217;s sexual orientation a<br />
secret while in the military.  If you are a woman, it&#8217;s tougher in my<br />
opinion and through my experience.  You are constantly getting hit on<br />
and if you refuse/reject those advances you are automatically considered<br />
and called a lesbian.  Thus if you are wise, you have at least one or<br />
several male friends who pass for &#8220;straight&#8221; and be seen out in public<br />
with them.&#8221;</p>
<p>* L.S., Decatur, IL</p>
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		<title>Comment on First Marine injured in the Iraq war is gay by dekerivers</title>
		<link>http://reames.wordpress.com/2007/02/28/first-marine-injured-in-the-iraq-war-is-gay/#comment-25</link>
		<dc:creator>dekerivers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2007 03:43:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One of my readers commented recently that gay rights are ’special rights’, and since Alva is a gay member of the United States military I am wondering if my reader feels that this patriotic American has any reason to want justice.  Alva is bravely fighting to end the bigoted notion of ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ that has cost the U.S. taxpayers millions of dollars, and ended the military careers of many citizens.  While Alva was ready to give his life for his country my reader sits in America hoping to deny ’special rights’ to patriotic citizens.  One really has to wonder what goes on in the heads of bigoted conservatives.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my readers commented recently that gay rights are ’special rights’, and since Alva is a gay member of the United States military I am wondering if my reader feels that this patriotic American has any reason to want justice.  Alva is bravely fighting to end the bigoted notion of ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ that has cost the U.S. taxpayers millions of dollars, and ended the military careers of many citizens.  While Alva was ready to give his life for his country my reader sits in America hoping to deny ’special rights’ to patriotic citizens.  One really has to wonder what goes on in the heads of bigoted conservatives.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Religious Freedom and Marriage Fairness Act by kayinmaine</title>
		<link>http://reames.wordpress.com/2007/02/28/religious-freedom-and-marriage-fairness-act/#comment-24</link>
		<dc:creator>kayinmaine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Feb 2007 23:34:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that&#039;s a wonderful idea to change the meaning of marriage between two persons.  I also think because it&#039;s the states who issue the marriage licenses, they cannot discriminate on the basis of a person&#039;s sexuality.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that&#8217;s a wonderful idea to change the meaning of marriage between two persons.  I also think because it&#8217;s the states who issue the marriage licenses, they cannot discriminate on the basis of a person&#8217;s sexuality.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Parent Rights vs. State Rights? by SurfaceEarth</title>
		<link>http://reames.wordpress.com/2007/02/25/parent-rights-vs-state-rights/#comment-23</link>
		<dc:creator>SurfaceEarth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Feb 2007 23:51:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>try findlaw.com/search under state law, click on MA, see what happens.  Otherwise netscape has a tendency to be accurate on articles, try your key terms, it may bring you there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>try findlaw.com/search under state law, click on MA, see what happens.  Otherwise netscape has a tendency to be accurate on articles, try your key terms, it may bring you there.</p>
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		<title>Comment on GLBT Youth Host Home Program by Thomas G. Dibble</title>
		<link>http://reames.wordpress.com/2007/01/19/glbt-youth-host-home-program/#comment-2</link>
		<dc:creator>Thomas G. Dibble</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jan 2007 14:31:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It makes me very proud, as Senator Dibble&#039;s father, to see him involved in such a worthwhile effort as the Host Home Program.  He is a state senator who is really making a difference on many levels and important issues.  I won&#039;t be able to attend the house party since I live in New Jersey - but my thoughts with be with the organizers, supporters and youth who will benefit from this program.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It makes me very proud, as Senator Dibble&#8217;s father, to see him involved in such a worthwhile effort as the Host Home Program.  He is a state senator who is really making a difference on many levels and important issues.  I won&#8217;t be able to attend the house party since I live in New Jersey &#8211; but my thoughts with be with the organizers, supporters and youth who will benefit from this program.</p>
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